A Tough World 07/18/2011
It's a tough world for people - even children. I talk about the tough world in a new article entitle "Plans A, B, C, or God's Plan". If you let your kids read these articles, I suggest that you read this one with them and guide them through some of these tough concepts. Remember, be the Lord's humbled when looking for a plan to live by. The Lord's humbled . . . John A. Reeves Add Comment Self-Control 07/07/2010
"A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls" (Proverbs 25:28). What is the purpose of walls around a city? The most obvious answer is for the purpose of protecting a city from marauders. However there is another purpose behind walls, that is, boundaries. Many people build "invisible" walls around their person so they can keep others at a confortable distance: physically and emotionally. Yet, what happens when a person does not have appropriate walls/boundaries for themselves? People who drink alchohol or take drugs are primary examples of someone who lets down their boundaries; i.e., feels "more open" with their feelings. These people become more willing to do, or say, things they wouldn't normally say or do because of their lack of self-control. Self-control is essential when dealing with people and personal emotions. Without self-control the chances of acting in a way that puts "your city" in jeopardy becomes reality. What helps your city/boundaries/defense/self-control remain intact? Sleep? Healthy lifestyle? Forgiving others? Not being drunk on alchohol? Proper nourishment? Godly living through Jesus? Maybe, all of the above? Be a person of self-contol and keep your boundaries in check. This may allow you to be a better example for Christ to others. The Lord's humbled . . . John A. Reeves |