I like it when people argue, "Doesn't the Bible say not to judge?" Of course what they usually mean is - let me do what I want to do without your input.
We live in a society that expects "tolerance". Are there things people should be tolerant of or patient with? Sure. Are there things that people should have no tolerance for? Absolutely.
If God made a judgement against a lifestyle that someone chooses then when I follow God's judgement am I judging? The question should not be what man should be tolerant of; rather, what is God not tolerant of. If people are humble before God the choice is simple.
The Lord's humbled . . . John A. Reeves